# Day 92: Laughs

> Laughter first shows up at about 4 months on average, and your own laugh is part of how a baby learns what's funny. Chuckles, looking away, and the raspberry game.

- Series: Your fourth month, day by day (https://chorevia.com/learn/fourth-month), day 92 of 120, week 13
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- Last reviewed: 2026-10-21
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This guide is general education that summarizes published research and guidance from groups like the American Academy of Pediatrics, the CDC, and the WHO. It isn’t medical advice, and every child develops on their own timeline. Your pediatrician knows your child; if something feels wrong, call them. In an emergency, call 911.

Somewhere between a coo and a hiccup is a chuckle. Today is about finding it, and about the one thing in the room that teaches a baby what's funny: you.

## Heart

Laughter first appears at about 4 months on average, and in the second half of the first year babies start laughing at silly surprises, like a parent putting a book on their head ([Mireault et al., 2015](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25897958/)). Chuckles are a 4-month milestone and full laughs a 6-month one, so the window is wide ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/4-months.html); [CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/6-months.html)). If your baby looks away in the middle of a game, that's control, not rejection; it keeps them from getting overwhelmed ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Emotional-and-Social-Development-Birth-to-3-Months.aspx)).

## Head

Fun is shared, and your face is the lesson. In a study of 37 babies tested at 5 to 7 months, babies smiled longer, or sooner and more often, at a parent's raspberries when the parent laughed too ([Mireault et al., 2015](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25897958/)). Your laughter helps your baby figure out what's funny ([Mireault et al., 2015](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25897958/)). So the game isn't the raspberry; it's the raspberry plus your reaction. Laugh first, then wait and watch what comes back.

## Body

A laugh needs an alert, fed, rested baby, so pick your moment. CDC suggests peekaboo at this age and paying close attention to how your baby reacts to different things ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/4-months.html)); one baby chuckles at a sneeze, another at a sock on your hand. Squeals come later; they're a 6-month milestone ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/6-months.html)). Stop while it's still fun, before the look-away turns into a fuss ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Emotional-and-Social-Development-Birth-to-3-Months.aspx)).

## Try today

### Raspberry laugh game

- **Time:** A few minutes, when your baby is happy and alert
- **From the guide:** [Raspberry laugh game](https://chorevia.com/learn/3-months#raspberry-laugh-game)

1. Blow a gentle raspberry on your baby's tummy or on your own hand.
2. Laugh, then pause and watch your baby's face.
3. Repeat whatever gets a smile or a chuckle, and change it up if nothing does: a slower raspberry, a sillier face.
4. Stop while it's still fun, and take a break when your baby looks away.

**Make it work:** Laugh games haven't been tested at 3 to 4 months, and the raspberry study was done with 5- to 7-month-olds ([Mireault et al., 2015](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25897958/)). A game with no laugh yet is still a game.

## Watch for

- **Normal:** smiles but no chuckle yet; chuckling is on the 4-month list, laughing on the 6-month one ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/4-months.html); [CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/6-months.html)). **Raise it with your pediatrician** if your baby doesn't smile on their own by 5 months ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Developmental-Milestones-7-Months.aspx)).
- **Normal:** a laugh that ends in a hiccup or a cough. **Call 911** if your baby is struggling to breathe, has stopped breathing, or has bluish lips or face ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/tips-tools/symptom-checker/Pages/symptomviewer.aspx?symptom=Breathing+Trouble)).
- **Normal:** a game that ends in fussing because you went one round too long. **Call your pediatrician right away** if your baby has a fever and cries nonstop or cries when touched ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/tips-tools/symptom-checker/Pages/symptomviewer.aspx?symptom=Fever)).

## For you

Laugh along; your reaction is part of the game ([Mireault et al., 2015](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25897958/)). That's an instruction, not a performance review. Nobody laughs on command at week thirteen on broken sleep, and a baby can't tell a tired laugh from a rested one.

If nothing has felt funny for a while, notice that. Low mood, anxiety, or emptiness that is severe or lasts more than 2 weeks may be postpartum depression, which usually doesn't improve without treatment but does respond to therapy, medication, or both ([NIMH](https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/perinatal-depression)). Call or text the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA (1-833-852-6262), or call or text 988 ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/reproductive-health/depression/index.html)).

If you're the partner: the raspberry is yours tonight. Then tell her the thing that made the baby laugh, so she gets the laugh twice.

## Sources

- Mireault GC, Crockenberg SC, Sparrow JE, et al. "Laughing matters: Infant humor in the context of parental affect." Journal of Experimental Child Psychology, 2015. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25897958/
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "Milestones by 4 Months." Learn the Signs. Act Early., 2026. https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/4-months.html
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "Milestones by 6 Months." Learn the Signs. Act Early., 2026. https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/6-months.html
- American Academy of Pediatrics. "Emotional & Social Development: Birth Through 3 Months." HealthyChildren.org, 2026. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Emotional-and-Social-Development-Birth-to-3-Months.aspx
- American Academy of Pediatrics. "Developmental Milestones: 7 Months." HealthyChildren.org, 2009. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Developmental-Milestones-7-Months.aspx
- American Academy of Pediatrics. "Breathing Trouble" (symptom checker). HealthyChildren.org, 2026. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/tips-tools/symptom-checker/Pages/symptomviewer.aspx?symptom=Breathing+Trouble
- American Academy of Pediatrics. "Fever" (symptom checker). HealthyChildren.org, 2026. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/tips-tools/symptom-checker/Pages/symptomviewer.aspx?symptom=Fever
- National Institute of Mental Health. "Perinatal Depression." 2026. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/perinatal-depression
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "Symptoms of Depression Among Women." 2024. https://www.cdc.gov/reproductive-health/depression/index.html