# Day 239: Speak up

> Thirty-four weeks and one day. If something about your care has been bothering you, the NHS's advice this week is plain: speak up. Today you write the two sentences.

- Series: Your eighth month of pregnancy, day by day (https://chorevia.com/learn/pregnancy-month-8), day 239 of 280, 34 weeks + 1 day
- Your baby this week: about the size of a cantaloupe melon; around 45 cm from head to heel
- Canonical URL: https://chorevia.com/learn/pregnancy-month-8/day-239
- Last reviewed: 2026-10-22
- Publisher: Chorevia (https://chorevia.com)
- Cite as: Chorevia. "Day 239: Speak up." Last reviewed October 22, 2026. https://chorevia.com/learn/pregnancy-month-8/day-239

This guide is general education that summarizes published research and guidance from groups like the American Academy of Pediatrics, the CDC, and the WHO. It isn’t medical advice, and every child develops on their own timeline. Your pediatrician knows your child; if something feels wrong, call them. In an emergency, call 911.

Thirty-four weeks and one day. Visits are coming every couple of weeks now, and soon every week. If there's something you've been swallowing at those visits, a rushed answer, a question brushed aside, a worry nobody wrote down, today is the day to get it into words.

## Your baby

Around now your baby is around 45cm long from head to heel, about the size of a cantaloupe melon, curled up with their legs bent toward their chest ([NHS](https://www.nhs.uk/best-start-in-life/pregnancy/week-by-week-guide-to-pregnancy/3rd-trimester/week-34/)). In a baby boy, the testicles are descending into the scrotum around now ([NHS](https://www.nhs.uk/best-start-in-life/pregnancy/week-by-week-guide-to-pregnancy/3rd-trimester/week-34/)).

## Your body

Two things on the NHS's list for this week go together: read the antenatal care guidelines, so you know what care to expect, and speak up if you're unhappy with your care ([NHS](https://www.nhs.uk/best-start-in-life/pregnancy/week-by-week-guide-to-pregnancy/3rd-trimester/week-34/)). In the third trimester, visits cover your weight, the size of your bump, your blood pressure, the baby's position, and the timing of the birth ([MedlinePlus](https://medlineplus.gov/ency/patientinstructions/000558.htm)). MedlinePlus is plain about the rest: "Tell your doctor or midwife if you have any problems or concerns" ([MedlinePlus](https://medlineplus.gov/ency/patientinstructions/000557.htm)).

The habit carries on after the birth. The AAP's advice if you're ever unhappy with your baby's doctor is the same shape: talk to them first, and if it isn't resolved, find another ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/prenatal/decisions-to-make/Pages/finding-a-pediatrician.aspx)).

## Try today

### The speak-up script

- **Time:** 10 minutes

1. Name the one thing that has bothered you most at your visits. Just one.
2. Write the first sentence: what happened, in plain words. "At my last visit I asked about my headaches and didn't get an answer."
3. Write the second sentence: what you want now. "I'd like to go through it properly today."
4. Put the note in your bag for the next visit, and read it out word for word if that's easier than remembering it.

**Make it work:** If speaking up is hard for you, bring your partner or a friend and agree beforehand that they'll say "She had a question" if the visit starts wrapping up without it.

## Watch for

- **Normal:** an occasional headache that eases with rest and water. **Call your provider** right away for a headache that won't go away or gets worse over time ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/maternal-warning-signs/index.html)).
- **Normal:** tired eyes at the end of the day. **Call your provider** right away for changes in your vision ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/maternal-warning-signs/index.html)), including blind spots ([MedlinePlus](https://medlineplus.gov/ency/patientinstructions/000558.htm)).
- **Normal:** some puffiness in your feet by evening. **Call your provider** right away for extreme swelling of your hands or face ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/maternal-warning-signs/index.html)).

## For you

These signs are why speaking up matters. The CDC's advice is to tell every health care provider you see that you're pregnant, and to contact them if something seems wrong, even if it isn't on any list ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/maternal-warning-signs/index.html)). Being clear and a little persistent isn't being difficult. It's how good care works.

If you're the partner: you're the second voice in the room. If she's said it once and it hasn't landed, you can say it again.

## Sources

- NHS. "Week 34." Week-by-week guide to pregnancy, Best Start in Life. https://www.nhs.uk/best-start-in-life/pregnancy/week-by-week-guide-to-pregnancy/3rd-trimester/week-34/
- MedlinePlus. "Prenatal care in your third trimester." National Library of Medicine. https://medlineplus.gov/ency/patientinstructions/000558.htm
- MedlinePlus. "Prenatal care in your second trimester." National Library of Medicine. https://medlineplus.gov/ency/patientinstructions/000557.htm
- American Academy of Pediatrics. "Finding a Pediatrician." HealthyChildren.org. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/prenatal/decisions-to-make/Pages/finding-a-pediatrician.aspx
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "Urgent Maternal Warning Signs and Symptoms." HEAR HER campaign, 2024. https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/maternal-warning-signs/index.html