# Day 266: Names to call

> Thirty-eight weeks. Most of the fine body hair is gone. Today you write five names on the fridge, each with one job they could do if plans change.

- Series: Your ninth month of pregnancy, day by day (https://chorevia.com/learn/pregnancy-month-9), day 266 of 280, 38 weeks
- Your baby this week: about the length of a stick of rhubarb; around 49.8 cm from head to heel
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- Last reviewed: 2026-10-22
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- Cite as: Chorevia. "Day 266: Names to call." Last reviewed October 22, 2026. https://chorevia.com/learn/pregnancy-month-9/day-266

This guide is general education that summarizes published research and guidance from groups like the American Academy of Pediatrics, the CDC, and the WHO. It isn’t medical advice, and every child develops on their own timeline. Your pediatrician knows your child; if something feels wrong, call them. In an emergency, call 911.

Thirty-eight weeks. You may feel ready, or nowhere near. Either way, today's job is the one people put off because it means admitting they'll need help: a short list of names.

## Your baby

Around now your baby is around 49.8cm long from head to heel, about the length of a stick of rhubarb ([NHS](https://www.nhs.uk/best-start-in-life/pregnancy/week-by-week-guide-to-pregnancy/3rd-trimester/week-38/)). Most of the fine body hair, the lanugo, has disappeared, though some babies are born with a few patches of it ([NHS](https://www.nhs.uk/best-start-in-life/pregnancy/week-by-week-guide-to-pregnancy/3rd-trimester/week-38/)). If yours has some on the shoulders or back, that's why.

## Your body

Swollen hands and feet are on the NHS's list of late-pregnancy symptoms ([NHS](https://www.nhs.uk/best-start-in-life/pregnancy/week-by-week-guide-to-pregnancy/3rd-trimester/week-36/)). The Office on Women's Health suggests drinking eight to 10 glasses of fluids a day, cutting back on caffeine and salty foods, resting with your feet raised, and asking your provider about support hose ([OWH](https://womenshealth.gov/pregnancy/youre-pregnant-now-what/body-changes-and-discomforts)). Swelling that comes on suddenly is a different thing (see Watch for).

The AAP's advice for these last weeks: look into child care or housekeeping help well before the due date. "Even if you don't think you'll need extra help, you should have a list of names to call in case the situation changes" ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/prenatal/Pages/Last-Minute-Activities.aspx)). Labour at night, a longer hospital stay than planned, a slow recovery: the list is for the version of the next month you didn't plan.

## Try today

### The help-names list

- **Time:** 15 minutes

1. Write five names. Not the most capable people you know; the ones who'd pick up at 6 a.m.
2. Next to each, write one job: meals, the dog, a school run, a load of laundry, a lift to an appointment.
3. Message each person: "Can I put you down for this in the weeks after the baby?" A yes now is easier than a favour asked in the moment.
4. Put the list on the fridge next to the hospital card, as the AAP suggests having one ready ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/prenatal/Pages/Last-Minute-Activities.aspx)), and send a photo of it to your partner.

**Make it work:** Specific jobs get specific answers. "Let me know if you need anything" becomes "Tuesday dinner" once it's written down.

## Watch for

- **Normal:** puffy ankles by evening that ease with your feet up ([OWH](https://womenshealth.gov/pregnancy/youre-pregnant-now-what/body-changes-and-discomforts)). **Call your provider** for sudden swelling in your hands or feet, or rapid weight gain, which may signal preeclampsia ([OWH](https://womenshealth.gov/pregnancy/youre-pregnant-now-what/body-changes-and-discomforts)), and get care right away for extreme swelling of your hands or face ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/maternal-warning-signs/index.html)).
- **Normal:** both legs a bit swollen. **Call your provider** right away for severe swelling, redness, or pain in one leg or arm ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/maternal-warning-signs/index.html)).
- **Normal:** feeling slow getting up from the sofa. **Call your provider** right away for dizziness or fainting ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/maternal-warning-signs/index.html)).

## For you

Asking for help can feel like failing a test nobody set. It isn't. The CDC lists little or no social support among the things that may raise the risk of depression ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/reproductive-health/depression/index.html)). A list on the fridge is support you arranged in advance.

If you're the partner: you're not on the list, because you're the one who calls it. Know where it is, and make the first call yourself when the time comes.

## Sources

- NHS. "Week 38." Week-by-week guide to pregnancy, Best Start in Life. https://www.nhs.uk/best-start-in-life/pregnancy/week-by-week-guide-to-pregnancy/3rd-trimester/week-38/
- NHS. "Week 36." Week-by-week guide to pregnancy, Best Start in Life. https://www.nhs.uk/best-start-in-life/pregnancy/week-by-week-guide-to-pregnancy/3rd-trimester/week-36/
- Office on Women's Health. "Body changes and discomforts." U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. https://womenshealth.gov/pregnancy/youre-pregnant-now-what/body-changes-and-discomforts
- American Academy of Pediatrics. "Last Minute Activities Before Delivery." HealthyChildren.org. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/prenatal/Pages/Last-Minute-Activities.aspx
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "Urgent Maternal Warning Signs and Symptoms." HEAR HER campaign, 2024. https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/maternal-warning-signs/index.html
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "Symptoms of Depression Among Women." Reproductive Health, 2024. https://www.cdc.gov/reproductive-health/depression/index.html