# Day 155: My name

> Babies prefer the sound of their own name by about 4.5 months, but looking up when you call it is a 7-to-9-month skill. A game that sits in the gap, and a thought about hearing your own name.

- Series: Your sixth month, day by day (https://chorevia.com/learn/sixth-month), day 155 of 365, week 21
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- Last reviewed: 2026-10-21
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- Cite as: Chorevia. "Day 155: My name." Last reviewed October 21, 2026. https://chorevia.com/learn/sixth-month/day-155

This guide is general education that summarizes published research and guidance from groups like the American Academy of Pediatrics, the CDC, and the WHO. It isn’t medical advice, and every child develops on their own timeline. Your pediatrician knows your child; if something feels wrong, call them. In an emergency, call 911.

You've said their name a thousand times. Today is about what your baby already hears in it, and what they can't do with it yet.

## Heart

Your baby is learning their name. In lab tests, 4.5-month-olds preferred the sound of it ([Mandel et al., 1995](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25152566/)). But looking up when you call it comes at 7 to 9 months ([ASHA](https://www.asha.org/public/developmental-milestones/communication-milestones-birth-to-1-year/)), so a baby who doesn't turn when you say "Maya" from the doorway isn't ignoring you; the sound is familiar before it's a summons. What matters now is that your baby turns toward your voice and makes sounds back ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/4-months.html)). CDC suggests using your baby's name often ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/4-months.html)); it's the easiest advice you'll get this month.

## Head

Names are how the world gets labeled. Naming what your baby sees, including the people in the room and the baby themselves, builds language connections before they understand any word ([Harvard Center on the Developing Child](https://developingchild.harvard.edu/key-concept/serve-and-return/)). Their own name gets said in a particular tone, at particular moments: before a pickup, at the start of a feed, when a face appears over the crib. That pairing of sound and what-comes-next is the lesson, and it needs no flashcards. A baby who knows familiar people and takes turns making sounds with you is on the 6-month list ([CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/6-months.html)).

## Body

Listening is also a check you run every day without trying. If your baby doesn't babble or imitate any sounds by 7 months, tell your pediatrician, since it can signal a hearing problem ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Language-Development-4-to-7-Months.aspx)). Turning toward sounds is a 4-month skill the AAP suggests raising with your pediatrician if it's missing ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Developmental-Milestones-7-Months.aspx)). Today's game is partly a game and partly that check.

## Try today

### The name-and-look game

- **Time:** A minute, a few times a day
- **From the guide:** [The name game](https://chorevia.com/learn/5-months#the-name-game)

1. While your baby is playing on the mat, kneel just out of their view, behind one shoulder.
2. Say their name softly, once, and wait a few seconds.
3. Smile and wave when they turn; if they don't, come around into view, say it again, and smile anyway.
4. Try from the other side.

**Make it work:** A turn toward your voice counts as a win; turning to the name itself is a skill for later ([ASHA](https://www.asha.org/public/developmental-milestones/communication-milestones-birth-to-1-year/)). Don't keep score.

## Watch for

- **Normal:** going quiet and still at a new voice instead of looking. **Bring it up, don't wait,** if your baby doesn't turn toward sounds by 4 months, and ask about developmental screening ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Developmental-Milestones-7-Months.aspx); [CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/4-months.html)).
- **Normal:** a baby who turns for a sibling's voice faster than for yours. **Call your pediatrician right away** if your baby has a fever higher than 104°F (40°C), or looks or acts very sick ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/tips-tools/symptom-checker/Pages/symptomviewer.aspx?symptom=Fever)).
- **Normal:** a slow, sleepy turn late in the day. **Go to the ER now** if your baby isn't alert when awake, or had a seizure with a fever ([AAP](https://www.healthychildren.org/English/tips-tools/symptom-checker/Pages/symptomviewer.aspx?symptom=Fever)).

## For you

The sound of your own name. Somewhere in the last five months you may have become "Mom," "Mama," "the baby's mother," the name on the appointment card. Babies prefer the sound of their own name by 4.5 months ([Mandel et al., 1995](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25152566/)); adults don't stop. So today, hear yours. Call the friend who still uses it. Say it when you introduce yourself at the pediatrician's desk instead of "I'm here with the baby." The person before the baby is still in there, and she answers to it.

If you're the partner: use her name tonight, out loud, in a sentence that has nothing to do with the baby.

## Sources

- Mandel DR, Jusczyk PW, Pisoni DB. "Infants' recognition of the sound patterns of their own names." *Psychological Science*, 1995. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25152566/
- American Speech-Language-Hearing Association. "Communication Milestones: Birth to 1 Year." Accessed 2026. https://www.asha.org/public/developmental-milestones/communication-milestones-birth-to-1-year/
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "Milestones by 4 Months." Learn the Signs. Act Early. program, updated 2026. https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/4-months.html
- Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University. "Serve and Return." Accessed 2026. https://developingchild.harvard.edu/key-concept/serve-and-return/
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "Milestones by 6 Months." Learn the Signs. Act Early. program, updated 2026. https://www.cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/6-months.html
- American Academy of Pediatrics. "Language Development: 4 to 7 Months." HealthyChildren.org, updated 2009. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Language-Development-4-to-7-Months.aspx
- American Academy of Pediatrics. "Developmental Milestones: 7 Months." HealthyChildren.org, updated 2009. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/Pages/Developmental-Milestones-7-Months.aspx
- American Academy of Pediatrics. "Fever" (symptom checker). HealthyChildren.org, accessed 2026. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/tips-tools/symptom-checker/Pages/symptomviewer.aspx?symptom=Fever