Parent guides
Raising capable kids, one stage at a time
One guide for every stage from newborn to 18. Each covers what’s developing, what the research says, parenting techniques, what to teach, and activities to try, with the strength of the evidence behind each one.
The first year
Birth to 1 monthNewbornThe first month is about feeding, sleep, and getting to know each other. Here's what's developing, what the research actually shows, 16 simple activities, and answers to the questions new parents ask most.Read the guide · 16 min16 activities · 18 common questions
1 to 2 months1 monthMonth two brings real smiles, new sounds, and for many families the hardest stretch of crying. Here's what's developing, what the research shows about colic and sleep, and what actually helps.Read the guide · 14 min14 activities · 12 common questions
2 to 3 months2 monthsMonth three brings coos, chuckles, and hands that finally find each other. Here's what's developing, what to expect after the 2-month shots, what the research says about talk and sleep, and what helps.Read the guide · 26 min13 activities · 12 common questions
3 to 4 months3 monthsMonth four brings chuckles, hands that finally grab, and for some babies a first roll. Here's what's developing, what research actually says about the '4-month sleep regression,' and how to get everyone more rest.Read the guide · 18 min13 activities · 12 common questions
4 to 5 months4 monthsAround 4 months, babies start reaching for the world and putting all of it in their mouths. Here's what's developing, what research says about sleep training, early solids, and teething, and what actually helps.Read the guide · 17 min12 activities · 12 common questions
5 to 6 months5 monthsMonth six brings rolling, wobbly sitting, babble with the first consonants, and a lot of questions about food. Here's what's developing, what the research says about peanut, egg, teething, and baby walkers, and what actually helps.Read the guide · 17 min14 activities · 12 common questions
6 to 7 months6 monthsSix months brings first foods, first teeth for many babies, wobbly sitting, and babble that starts to sound like talk. Here's what's developing, what the research says about allergens and baby-led weaning, and what actually helps.Read the guide · 27 min11 activities · 11 common questions
7 months to 1 year7 to 12 monthsThe second half of the first year turns a sitting baby into a mover, a pointer, and maybe a walker. Here's what's developing, what the research says about crawling, babble, and new foods, and how to keep a mobile baby safe.Read the guide · 17 min14 activities · 12 common questions
Toddlers
12 to 24 monthsAge 1This is the year your baby becomes a walking, talking, opinionated toddler. Here's what's developing, what the research says about words, tantrums, screens, and spanking, and how to welcome the helper in your house.Read the guide · 26 min11 activities · 12 common questions
2 to 3 yearsAge 2Two is the year toddlers start talking in sentences, insist on doing it themselves, and want in on everything you do. Here's what's developing, what research says about tantrums, potty training, and stuttering, and what actually helps.Read the guide · 19 min14 activities · 12 common questions
Preschool
3 to 4 yearsAge 3Three-year-olds hold real conversations, ask why about everything, and start making friends. Here's what's developing, what the research really says about preschool, pretend play, and the marshmallow test, and what helps at home.Read the guide · 27 min13 activities · 12 common questions
4 to 5 yearsAge 4Four-year-olds tell long stories, make up rules, and test the truth. Here's what's developing, what research really says about early reading, math, lying, and holding kindergarten off a year, and what helps at home.Read the guide · 18 min14 activities · 12 common questions
Early school years
5 to 6 yearsAge 5Five is the kindergarten year. Here's what's developing, what the research really says about phonics, reading aloud, early math, and starting school young, and what helps at home, from family jobs to a first save jar.Read the guide · 18 min13 activities · 12 common questions
6 to 7 yearsAge 6Six is the start of middle childhood: first grade, wiggly teeth, best friends, and big feelings about fairness. Here's what's developing, what the research really says about homework, praise, and mindset, and what actually helps.Read the guide · 16 min14 activities · 12 common questions
7 to 8 yearsAge 7Seven is the age of rules, fairness, and real competence. Here's what's developing, what research says about self-esteem, worry, reading, and math, and how to build responsibility and money habits that last.Read the guide · 24 min12 activities · 12 common questions
8 to 9 yearsAge 8Eight brings best friends, bigger schoolwork, and for some kids the first signs of puberty. Here's what's developing, what research says about praise, reading, bullying, and sports, and how to build real responsibility at home.Read the guide · 17 min14 activities · 12 common questions
Tweens
9 to 10 yearsAge 9Nine is the start of the tween years: more privacy, a bigger friend world, harder schoolwork, and the first signs of puberty for some kids. Here's what's developing, what the research says (including famous findings that shrank), and what helps.Read the guide · 17 min14 activities · 12 common questions
10 to 11 yearsAge 10Ten is when puberty starts for many kids, friends move to the center of life, and the phone question lands on the kitchen table. Here's what's developing, what the research says (including where experts disagree), and what helps.Read the guide · 24 min13 activities · 12 common questions
11 to 12 yearsAge 11Eleven often brings a new school, a changing body, louder feelings, and the first group chats. Here's what's developing, what the research says (including what's been oversold), and how to stay close while handing over more.Read the guide · 18 min14 activities · 12 common questions
12 to 13 yearsAge 12Twelve often brings a body deep in puberty, a later body clock, sharper arguments, and new pressure online. Here's what's developing, what the research says about the 'teen brain' (and where it's oversold), and practical ways to stay close while handing over more.Read the guide · 18 min13 activities · 12 common questions
Teens
13 to 14 yearsAge 13Thirteen brings bigger feelings, later bedtimes, a first phone or social account, and a strong pull toward friends. Here's what's developing, what the research really shows (including where it's contested), and practical ways to stay connected.Read the guide · 25 min13 activities · 12 common questions
14 to 15 yearsAge 14Fourteen often brings a new high school, heavier homework, first relationships, and maybe a first paycheck. Here's what's developing, what the research says about motivation, studying, sleep, and risk, and practical ways to help.Read the guide · 18 min13 activities · 12 common questions
15 to 16 yearsAge 15Fifteen often brings a learner's permit, a first summer job, and bigger questions about who your teen is becoming. Here's what's developing, what the research says about practice driving, mood, sex talks, and cannabis, and what actually helps.Read the guide · 18 min14 activities · 12 common questions
16 to 17 yearsAge 16Sixteen often brings car keys, a first paycheck, and more freedom than ever. Here's what's developing, what the research says about teen drivers, work, money, and risk, and what actually helps.Read the guide · 26 min13 activities · 12 common questions
17 to 18 yearsAge 17Seventeen is the last full year before legal adulthood. Here's what the research says about college, cost, and finishing, plus the money, health, and life skills your teen needs before they leave home.Read the guide · 17 min14 activities · 12 common questions
18 and launching into adulthoodAge 18Eighteen is a legal line, not a finish line. Here's what changes for parents on paper, what the research says about the young adult brain, mental health, and launching, and how to stay close while your young adult takes the wheel.Read the guide · 17 min12 activities · 12 common questions
These guides summarize published research and guidance from groups like the American Academy of Pediatrics, the CDC, and the WHO. They’re for general education, not medical advice: your pediatrician knows your child, and every child develops on their own timeline. Every guide is also available as plain Markdown for AI assistants and other tools; see llms.txt.