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Day 16 of 60 · Week 3

Bath day?

Last reviewed · 3 min read · 11 sources · Plain-text version

If the cord stump is off and healed, today could be the first real bath: two inches of warm water, never alone, three a week is plenty. And a long shower for you.

A mother kneels at a small baby tub on a bathroom floor with two inches of water, one hand supporting her newborn's head and back, while a toddler sibling watches from the doorway in soft daylight.

If the cord stump is off and the spot has healed, today could be the first real bath. If it isn't, today is a sponge bath and a rain check. Both are fine.

Heart

The AAP says bathing should be relaxing, and a warm bath is on its list of ways to soothe a crying baby (AAP; AAP). The goal isn't clean. It's a warm, slow few minutes where your hands and voice are the whole world. Three baths a week may be enough, since bathing more often can dry out your baby's skin (AAP).

Head

The timing rule: a tub bath once the umbilical cord stump has fallen off and the area has healed; until then, sponge baths (AAP). The stump usually falls off by 1 to 2 weeks, and should by 3 (AAP).

The water rule: about 2 inches, warm but not hot on the inside of your wrist or elbow. Use soap sparingly, since it can dry the skin. And never leave your baby alone in the bath, even for an instant (AAP).

Body

After the bath, the skin. Peeling is normal (AAP). Sometime between 3 weeks and 2 months, a scaly scalp rash called cradle cap may start; washing every other day with a mild baby shampoo helps (AAP). Dress your baby right away in one more layer than you'd wear to be comfortable in the same room, and skip the hat indoors (AAP). If they get sleepy afterward, it's their back, in their own sleep space.

Try today

  1. Kneeling at the small tub on the bathroom floor in soft daylight the mother wipes her sixteen-day-old's face with a washcloth, her other hand under the head, two inches of water in the tub.

    The first tub bath

    Time: A few minutes, about 3 times a week · When can I give my newborn a real bath? in the guide

    1. Check the stump spot. Off and healed means tub; otherwise it's a sponge bath today (AAP).

    2. Warm the room, lay out a towel, washcloth, and clean diaper, and fill the tub with about 2 inches of water that feels warm, not hot, on your wrist (AAP).

    3. Lower your baby in slowly, one hand supporting the head and neck the whole time.

    4. Wash the face first, then the body, then the diaper area, talking as you go.

    5. Lift out, pat dry, and dress right away.

    Make it work:

    If the doorbell rings, the baby comes with you, wrapped in a towel. Never alone, even for an instant (AAP).

Watch for

  • Normal

    spit-up that comes up easily with a burp.

    Go to the ER now

    if your baby vomits green, even once (AAP).

  • Normal

    mustard yellow poop if breastfed, yellow-tan with hints of green if formula-fed.

    Call your pediatrician as soon as possible

    about white or very pale poop, which can signal a liver problem, or red poop (AAP).

  • Normal

    a baby who feels cool straight out of the bath and warms up dressed and held.

    Call your pediatrician right away

    for a rectal temperature below 96.8°F (36.0°C) that doesn't go up with warming (Seattle Children's).

For you

A frosted bathroom door shut, steam curling over the top, while in the hall her partner sits on the floor in soft daylight holding the newborn upright on his chest, the toddler leaning against him.

Your turn. A long shower is yours today, door shut, someone else holding the baby. After a C-section, no soaking (tub, hot tub, swimming) until your provider says so, usually about 3 weeks; wash the incision with mild soap and water (MedlinePlus).

Your breasts can feel full, tender, or uncomfortable right now even if you aren't breastfeeding (Office on Women's Health). A tender, red, warm area on one breast is a call to your provider (MedlinePlus).

If you're the partner: bath time is a good job to own. It's hands-on, it repeats, and your baby is learning your voice while you narrate it.

Sources

This guide is general education that summarizes published research and guidance from groups like the American Academy of Pediatrics, the CDC, and the WHO. It isn’t medical advice, and every child develops on their own timeline. Your pediatrician knows your child; if something feels wrong, call them. In an emergency, call 911.

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